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Thursday, 17 September 2015

Getting back to what’s important.



This trip feels different. It’s not necessarily a ‘holiday’ as such, the kind where I’d normally seek the nearest beach and plant myself on a sun lounger with a Pina Colada all day. It’s a strange feeling taking the ego out of a holiday; I’ll be returning without even a tan to show for it - but that’s fine. Because this trip feels different, it is different. I think that’s what separates a trip from a holiday. I’ve done this for me, my own peace of mind, and not only to absorb all of the beauty and culture that Italy has to offer, but just to understand that there is more out there for me.

As mentioned in my previous post, it’s easy to become stuck in a rut when surrounded by the same people, and trapped in the same environment for a long period of time. It can become hard to see the wood through the trees. I’ve gone from waking up to seeing nothing but a busy main road, rows of street lights and the same man – vacant expression always – going to get his morning coffee, to the sight of rolling hills stretched for miles, picturesque countryside surrounded by tiny hilltop towns, and a crisp air that almost takes my breath away when I open the door to the balcony every morning. It’s magical.

I’m currently in Macerata, a province in the Marche region of central Italy. Up in the hills and with a beautiful historical city centre, my Uncle said that Macerata is considered to be a hidden gem of Italy. Tourists usually flock to Milan or Rome to experience Italy’s cultural vibrancy or notorious historical landmarks, but places like this, hidden away in the hilltops, are almost untouched by tourism. It’s the perfect way to find the peace and serenity I’ve been craving for so long, and to really immerse myself in the true Italian way of living.  

It’s currently Thursday, so I’m not even half way through my trip yet. But I already feel like I’m achieving what I came here to do. It’s the most frustrating thing having a mind consumed with thoughts, feelings, ideas that I just haven’t been able to translate into words. Writing is what I’ve been studying at University; I’ve been planning to make it my future, my career – so why haven’t I been able to put pen to paper and let the contents of my mind spill out onto a page? At home I felt crushed by the things going on around me, it was never part of the plan. Writing my thoughts would mean it was actually happening. But as I sit here, writing away, listening to music, my uncle dancing around the room to music of the world…it feels right. I forget everything else when I write; I was told that if you lose track of time when doing something then that thing is a passion.

I’m writing again and it feels great. It’s something I would strongly recommend for anyone in a sticky situation in which they can see no escape. Open a notebook, or a Word document and just write, anything and everything. Nobody has to see it but yourself, and it’s something I’ve definitely found difficult. As a student currently studying Journalism, an audience is something always on my mind so it’s a challenge writing for myself. But after I’ve done it, it feels like a weight off my shoulders. I still have documents I wrote over a month ago now and I read them back and don’t even recognise the person I was back then; it’s the best way to track progress or put into perspective how far I’ve come. 
I feel like I’ve come so far in a short space of time. I don’t know what the next week or so has in store for me, but I’m starting to feel myself again. Not the old me who was so easily caught up in everyday mundane problems, but a freer, happier person, humbled by the skies I’m under, and simply appreciating the day without fear of the next.



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